Several untruths of failure
"Better setback than temporary success." - Pi Tagore
“Защо все се провалям? !”… 8 untruths for failure "blew it again!", "Again I hit a stone," "Why do I fail?" ...
If you've ever said any of these lines - or similar - it is very likely to believe in some "truths" about success and failure, which is not necessarily believe.
Sometimes I complain that brainwashed, but I do not deny. Because the verb "wash" a lot of meanings. And one of them is to promiesh wound - with disinfectant solution. To protect her from infection.
If your brain is infected by any of the following myths about the failure - and then you need a wash.
But even if not, perhaps it was written something will make you think. And even if you begin to think in new ways.
Otherwise, this post would be a complete failure. 8 untruths for failure
Here are my
False EIGHT FOR FAILURE
A. Successful people are immune from failure. Large whopper! History and the world around us are filled with thousands of examples of successful and respected individuals who have suffered repeated setbacks and noisy. Ten thousand experience with Edison bulb is perhaps the most famous example in this respect. But it is known that Edison himself never accepted it as a failure.
2. If I fail - I mean loser! Only if you still believe in such nonsense. Because failures are failures and processes - rather than individuals. And as we have already learned - the biggest also fail regularly.
3. Success is no failure. It's like saying that a day only night. Every success is standing on the shoulders of dozens, sometimes hundreds of failures. Failures are just steps, which will climb to dream success. Unless zakretate and pass on the way back down to Cape amusement parks.
4. Failures should be avoided. That in our stupid teacher punished for our mistakes, largely have learned to shy away from them and avoid them. But mistakes and failures are a natural part of growth. I want to see at least one teacher who has fallen out of your ass - when he was a baby and learned to walk. (Most of them seem to have a crush on their heads often, but that's another topic ...).
5. Failures me away from success. Sometimes it is just the opposite. They do not complain about any failure to order sniveling, but to sit on it Dr. and see what the lesson is trying to teach us the universe. If you figure out another message from our failure - you have at least one step closer to success.
6. It makes no sense to try more! If you really believe him - you are now in a mental coma. It opens onto hard, but sometimes a nice kick in the ass helps. Oh, look around you! Surely you can see people without arms or legs, without vision, hearing or anything else ... And they have not before! Struggling with life and won from him every day, every minute ... If you have eyes, ears, two legs and two hands - so you're only missing heart. But no "rabbit" ...
7. I am the eternal loser! If you believe you are your troubles occur, blunders and failures - rather not wait for this to change! But if we accept that not everything in life is black or white - may be out of the vicious circle of self-pity. Preferably, F.
8. Tired to fight with life! A sure sign that you should not just kick back, but a tough fight. So are friends ... Life is a gift! Life is an adventure! Journey ... but not indefinitely. Will be here forever and it is a crime to squander their days in pessimism, self-pity and doom. If you are so tired - one day (her) a break! And for a long ...
If you have been facing the pillow (or just with hemorrhoids in the brain at birth), will now slurring comments on how this is only the vain pump, ie air pressure.
Everyone is free to believe in whatever he wants. Including those who think that everything is lost and there is no more trying ... after so many failures ...
But I choose to believe that after the failure sooner or later comes a great success. And then more and more ...
And I do not intend to give up.
(I learned from a zebra): 
Posted: February 6th, 2012 by Author: Sylvia, Katia Kuncheva , Social Psychology .
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Comparison between model and Kaner syndrome of Asperger syndrome:
Syndrome Kaner
Appears during the first year of life.
Walking develops earlier than speech.
It occurs in boys and girls.
Lack of eye contact, others not
noticed.
The speech did not perform communication functions.
Problems in the cognitive domain.
Limited intellectual events.
Restless behavior.
When hospitalization is no indifference.
Unfavorable social prognosis.
Asperger's Syndrome
Appears in the second, even through
third year of life.
The speech appears before walking.
It occurs exclusively in boys.
Eye contact was fleeting, superficial.
The speech is communicative functions.
Problems in the emotional sphere.
Intellectual development is at or above
norm.
Strange behavior.
When hospitalization is a wish to
return home, but indifference to
absence of relatives.
Favorable social prognosis.
Significant difference between autistic and those visokofunktsionirashtite syndrome Aperger except that the type aspergeroviya no delay in speech-language development, autistic visokofunktsionirashtite suffer from that can not be like others, representatives of Asperger syndrome, recognizing its diversity, nothing in the world would not want to be like others.
For children with Asperger's syndrome is difficult to recognize the signals of communication that most people take for granted as a result, they are more difficult to communicate and have relationships with others. And if we manage properly in early school age, total aid to "learn to recognize, first-time memorizing them," in practice, we could predostvaim chance of children at a time to leave the list diagnosis because they have already learned their "lesson".
A otnsono development of social skills:
Aspergerovite people have difficulty in building social relationships - unlike those with classic autism, which often seem bemused and uninterested in the world around them, many people with Asperger syndrome want to be sociable and enjoy human contact. Although still find it hard to understand non-verbal signals, including expression, which makes them harder to build and maintain social relationships with people who are not familiar with their needs.
And because children with Asperger's want to communicate but do not know how this heme is more easily that they are motivated to communicate, yet it is difficult to find the right path and approach therapy.
Children with autism Kanerov type live in your own world, while children with Asperger syndrome live in our world, but in their own terms, with their rules and regulations.
Rules, regulations and authorities have a particular problem and challenge for children of all autistic spectrum!
Asperger's is socialized or as Americans call them, and themselves Asperger himself, Aspin (Aspey) reported that "entry" into the social world inhuman effort cost them as they are forced by monkeys to imitate the behavior of people who wear them to death. On the other hand, because the whole world, some argue, is busy looking for their medicine to be cured their brains and if you really manage to find any, how they lived without it "this" as lifetime lived with him.
Other Asperger think that if someone came up with their "medicine" for less than 24 hours will collapse the entire Today's communications technology and development has been reached and on which rests modern humanity and technology, as is their work .
Strengths and weaknesses of a student with Asperger Syndrome:
Posted: January 7th, 2012 by Author: Sylvia, Katia Kuncheva .
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